When you are in phase of your life that you are so dependent to someone, please stop that kind of behavior. In the end, you will get caught in a situation where you can’t decide or do anything because you want it to consult first. Learn from me. Don’t be so dependent. You are responsible to yourself. Even if you have a partner or you have a close family ties. Do not let them control you. You can hear advice from them but learn to decide on your own.